Equanimity
There was a problem there must be the solution, you know my friend, in Ath-Thalaq QS (65): 7 Allaoh says:
"Allah will give spaciousness after the narrowness (etc.)"
There is no suffering in this life, unless the person making himself there menderita.Tidak
and weighing the difficulty of anything in this world, except the results from the fruit of his own thoughts. It's up to us, which would be brought into this life. Want to take difficult, surely things will become difficult. If we choose this path, then please, just this thought persulit. Want to take this complicated life will surely always seems complicated. Perumitlah keep our minds if this path is most preferred. Still, all the results and would seem, can not, only we ourselves who must feel and menaggung consequences.
However, if life was about to be made into sandwich narrow the field, everything looks complicated convoluted should be made into a simple, and everything seems blurry, gray, even black pitch, should be made clear and bright, so try to feel the effects.
It turned out that this world is no longer seemed shrunken, small sandwich, and tangled. Looking at this life feels like standing on top of the tower and stared wide stretches of blue sky studded nan stars, with light cast soft moonlight, making everything look more beautiful, more spacious, and very impressive. Allahu Akbar!
Indeed, the
"Verily, Allah does not do injustice to any human being, but that's what people do wrong to themselves" (Sura Yunus [11]: 44).
Though he has been expressly guaranteed through His Word,
"Allah will give spaciousness after narrowness (etc.)" (QS ath-Thalaq [65]: 7).
Mood Control
The key apparently lies in our skills in controlling mood. How? One of the most effective way is, when dealing with other human beings, we should never busy to remember the words that never sounded painful. Nor should we imagine the look on his face was busy being angry and cynical, he had done in days past.
Once the hearts and our minds began to slip into feeling like that, quick-quick control. Soon, this shift of mood by remembering all the good that is ever done to us, no matter how small. Recall when he had smiled upon us. Remember to shake hands so sincere or rangkulannya so full of friendship. Or, is not it the other day he had offered to eat with you or offer you goodness goodness.
In short, remember, remember only the good things-good course, once he did, as he dashed from the memory at all of our minds all the bad things he may have done.
Allaah the Almighty was tossing and turning the hearts of His servants. We will be surprised to discover the results. How quickly things have changed just after we struggled to change all that bad to look good.
Got older it was not enough just with age, science, or the rank and position. We grew up just when able to recognize and control it with a good heart. This is the key to reveal the real inner peace.
When we hit a romance, for example. Even if not ever want to ask ourselves, then we'll drop it gelinjang buffeted by the passions. Similarly, if we are overwhelmed with anger arousal. Had not ever want to control the heart, will be made because of our woe will be the prevailing mayhem on others.
Therefore, we should really have the time and seriousness to be watched all the movements and behavior of this heart. Lest we slip into arrogance we unknowingly. Do-do we have destroyed reward deeds done without us ever realize. Lest we are including people who love to apply unjust towards others without us realizing it. If this happens, the less wealth that can be packed our return to the hereafter? Is not every charity that we do that-there he was pious, or charitable deeds belonging to one heart-in fact depend on this?
We're going to fight, fight against keangkaramurkaan, berkuah sweat blood. But, as long as the liver becomes riya fight, want to be praised and called a hero; do not realize that such deeds in Allah's dry value, no value at all?
Becoming preachers, speaking convey Islamic teachings. Heard by hundreds or even thousands of people. Go far to various places, spend so many time and draining and minds. However, there will be no price on the side of God when the heart is not sincere. Just want to be praised and respected, so feel themselves the most noble, or even more fatal, because the motivation just to get a reward.
Similarly, when we left for the pilgrimage, takes dozens of days and traveled thousands of miles. The body was scorched scorching sun and jostling with the millions of human beings. But, if not accompanied by God's intentions, just want to praise it gets frill title hajj, then na'udzubillah, all this is not precious in the sight of Allah.
Why are jobs that have been redeemed by the sacrifice of so great in fact led to a sense of futility? It turned out that cause-and-musababnnya originate in negligence and inability to control mood. For, once a person is accompanied riya charity, ujub, or sum'ah (just looking for popularity), it can not, his mind will be occupied only by the question of how humans came to be praised. Once a compliment it does not come, the hearts were stricken sertamerta miserable. When you have this, when will again be obtained by the tranquility of life, besides the contrary, the days will always digelayuti feeling restless, anxious, disappointed, and miserable?
Ikhlas intention
Therefore, if we are not yet capable of doing great deeds, is it not better to maintain good works that may seem small and trivial by continually improving and maintaining the intention to always sincere and true? This is what it will be brought peace of mind, so God willing, will also produce an atmosphere of life to the cool, spacious, beautiful and impressive.
Hopefully with our ability to improve and maintain sincere intentions at heart when doing small deeds, the one day of God Almighty is pleased mengkaruniakan ability to be able to voluntarily when his time comes we must do good deeds are greater.
Large or small a practice that is done in this life, if it is based on a sincere heart and intentions as he accompanied the right way, will undoubtedly give birth ihsan attitude. Namely, we will always feel the presence of God in every move, so that in each pulse, we will always remember him.
This is a condition that would make the heart always feel the coolness and tranquility.
"Alaa bi dzikrillaahii tathma 'Inul qulub" (Surat ar-Ra'd [13]: 28), so God has provided a guarantee. Remember, only the remembrance of Allah do hearts become peaceful!
By Allah there is no other choice. We must be constantly wary of this heart. Do not destroy yourself secretly, without our even realizing it. Have gained little reward, the liver could not be restrained, so that the corrupted value of our deeds from time to time. Na'udzubillaah!
Thus, other than we're used to a shower to cleanse the body is born, we too must have something to do to "bathe" the heart of this. Besides we eat to satiate the stomach, we too must "eat" something that can make this heart filled. In addition to dressing to spruce up our appearance, we should busy "primp" tidying our hearts. And besides we diligently look in the mirror to adorn the face, we also do not forget to also diligent, industrious "mirrored" to adorn the heart.
All this is nothing that we have the ability to investigate senatiasa intent or bad behavior and foul, conscious or not, may we never do. That would be more helpful than we are busy spying vices of others, which means that only cheating yourself purely and absolutely will not bring peace of mind.
"Allah will give spaciousness after the narrowness (etc.)"
There is no suffering in this life, unless the person making himself there menderita.Tidak
and weighing the difficulty of anything in this world, except the results from the fruit of his own thoughts. It's up to us, which would be brought into this life. Want to take difficult, surely things will become difficult. If we choose this path, then please, just this thought persulit. Want to take this complicated life will surely always seems complicated. Perumitlah keep our minds if this path is most preferred. Still, all the results and would seem, can not, only we ourselves who must feel and menaggung consequences.
However, if life was about to be made into sandwich narrow the field, everything looks complicated convoluted should be made into a simple, and everything seems blurry, gray, even black pitch, should be made clear and bright, so try to feel the effects.
It turned out that this world is no longer seemed shrunken, small sandwich, and tangled. Looking at this life feels like standing on top of the tower and stared wide stretches of blue sky studded nan stars, with light cast soft moonlight, making everything look more beautiful, more spacious, and very impressive. Allahu Akbar!
Indeed, the
"Verily, Allah does not do injustice to any human being, but that's what people do wrong to themselves" (Sura Yunus [11]: 44).
Though he has been expressly guaranteed through His Word,
"Allah will give spaciousness after narrowness (etc.)" (QS ath-Thalaq [65]: 7).
Mood Control
The key apparently lies in our skills in controlling mood. How? One of the most effective way is, when dealing with other human beings, we should never busy to remember the words that never sounded painful. Nor should we imagine the look on his face was busy being angry and cynical, he had done in days past.
Once the hearts and our minds began to slip into feeling like that, quick-quick control. Soon, this shift of mood by remembering all the good that is ever done to us, no matter how small. Recall when he had smiled upon us. Remember to shake hands so sincere or rangkulannya so full of friendship. Or, is not it the other day he had offered to eat with you or offer you goodness goodness.
In short, remember, remember only the good things-good course, once he did, as he dashed from the memory at all of our minds all the bad things he may have done.
Allaah the Almighty was tossing and turning the hearts of His servants. We will be surprised to discover the results. How quickly things have changed just after we struggled to change all that bad to look good.
Got older it was not enough just with age, science, or the rank and position. We grew up just when able to recognize and control it with a good heart. This is the key to reveal the real inner peace.
When we hit a romance, for example. Even if not ever want to ask ourselves, then we'll drop it gelinjang buffeted by the passions. Similarly, if we are overwhelmed with anger arousal. Had not ever want to control the heart, will be made because of our woe will be the prevailing mayhem on others.
Therefore, we should really have the time and seriousness to be watched all the movements and behavior of this heart. Lest we slip into arrogance we unknowingly. Do-do we have destroyed reward deeds done without us ever realize. Lest we are including people who love to apply unjust towards others without us realizing it. If this happens, the less wealth that can be packed our return to the hereafter? Is not every charity that we do that-there he was pious, or charitable deeds belonging to one heart-in fact depend on this?
We're going to fight, fight against keangkaramurkaan, berkuah sweat blood. But, as long as the liver becomes riya fight, want to be praised and called a hero; do not realize that such deeds in Allah's dry value, no value at all?
Becoming preachers, speaking convey Islamic teachings. Heard by hundreds or even thousands of people. Go far to various places, spend so many time and draining and minds. However, there will be no price on the side of God when the heart is not sincere. Just want to be praised and respected, so feel themselves the most noble, or even more fatal, because the motivation just to get a reward.
Similarly, when we left for the pilgrimage, takes dozens of days and traveled thousands of miles. The body was scorched scorching sun and jostling with the millions of human beings. But, if not accompanied by God's intentions, just want to praise it gets frill title hajj, then na'udzubillah, all this is not precious in the sight of Allah.
Why are jobs that have been redeemed by the sacrifice of so great in fact led to a sense of futility? It turned out that cause-and-musababnnya originate in negligence and inability to control mood. For, once a person is accompanied riya charity, ujub, or sum'ah (just looking for popularity), it can not, his mind will be occupied only by the question of how humans came to be praised. Once a compliment it does not come, the hearts were stricken sertamerta miserable. When you have this, when will again be obtained by the tranquility of life, besides the contrary, the days will always digelayuti feeling restless, anxious, disappointed, and miserable?
Ikhlas intention
Therefore, if we are not yet capable of doing great deeds, is it not better to maintain good works that may seem small and trivial by continually improving and maintaining the intention to always sincere and true? This is what it will be brought peace of mind, so God willing, will also produce an atmosphere of life to the cool, spacious, beautiful and impressive.
Hopefully with our ability to improve and maintain sincere intentions at heart when doing small deeds, the one day of God Almighty is pleased mengkaruniakan ability to be able to voluntarily when his time comes we must do good deeds are greater.
Large or small a practice that is done in this life, if it is based on a sincere heart and intentions as he accompanied the right way, will undoubtedly give birth ihsan attitude. Namely, we will always feel the presence of God in every move, so that in each pulse, we will always remember him.
This is a condition that would make the heart always feel the coolness and tranquility.
"Alaa bi dzikrillaahii tathma 'Inul qulub" (Surat ar-Ra'd [13]: 28), so God has provided a guarantee. Remember, only the remembrance of Allah do hearts become peaceful!
By Allah there is no other choice. We must be constantly wary of this heart. Do not destroy yourself secretly, without our even realizing it. Have gained little reward, the liver could not be restrained, so that the corrupted value of our deeds from time to time. Na'udzubillaah!
Thus, other than we're used to a shower to cleanse the body is born, we too must have something to do to "bathe" the heart of this. Besides we eat to satiate the stomach, we too must "eat" something that can make this heart filled. In addition to dressing to spruce up our appearance, we should busy "primp" tidying our hearts. And besides we diligently look in the mirror to adorn the face, we also do not forget to also diligent, industrious "mirrored" to adorn the heart.
All this is nothing that we have the ability to investigate senatiasa intent or bad behavior and foul, conscious or not, may we never do. That would be more helpful than we are busy spying vices of others, which means that only cheating yourself purely and absolutely will not bring peace of mind.
Strengthen the heart and mind to face the test of God who would not whack each of us who believe in God. Life is a test, so that we shall easily in our life hereafter, amen. Our long wait, is not fruitful happy smile, a chance to gain a great reward it soon. By continuing to believe in Allah,
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