Quotations about Love





The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.  ~Mother Teresa


Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.  ~Albert Einstein


There is no surprise more magical than the surprise of being loved.  It is God's finger on man's shoulder.  ~Charles Morgan


You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover's arms can only come later when you're sure they won't laugh if you trip.  ~Jonathan Carroll, "Outside the Dog Museum"


Ah me! love can not be cured by herbs.  ~Ovid


Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.  ~Eric Fromm


Love has no desire but to fulfill itself.  To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.  To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving.  ~Kahlil Gibran


Infatuation is when you think he's as sexy as Robert Redford, as smart as Henry Kissinger, as noble as Ralph Nader, as funny as Woody Allen, and as athletic as Jimmy Conners.  Love is when you realize that he's as sexy as Woody Allen, as smart as Jimmy Connors, as funny as Ralph Nader, as athletic as Henry Kissinger and nothing like Robert Redford - but you'll take him anyway.  ~Judith Viorst, Redbook, 1975


Love is only a dirty trick played on us to achieve continuation of the species.  ~W. Somerset Maugham, A Writer's Notebook, 1949


Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.  ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand and Stars, 1939, translated from French by Lewis Galantière


When love is not madness, it is not love.  ~Pedro Calderon de la Barca


Let your love be like the misty rains, coming softly, but flooding the river.  ~Malagasy Proverb


Do I love you because you're beautiful,
Or are you beautiful because I love you?
~Richard Rodgers and Oscar Hammerstein II, Cinderella


For you see, each day I love you more
Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.
~Rosemonde Gerard


Forget love - I'd rather fall in chocolate!  ~Sandra J. Dykes


Love is much like a wild rose, beautiful and calm, but willing to draw blood in its defense.  ~Mark Overby


Love is a symbol of eternity.  It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end.  ~Author Unknown


Love - a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker.  ~Author Unknown


Love is a sweet tyranny, because the lover endureth his torments willingly.  ~Proverb


The lover is a monotheist who knows that other people worship different gods but cannot himself imagine that there could be other gods.  ~Theodor Reik, Of Love and Lust, 1957


Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.  ~Peter Ustinov


Hate leaves ugly scars, love leaves beautiful ones.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966


Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.
~William Shakespeare, Mid-Summer Night's Dream, 1595


The art of love... is largely the art of persistence.  ~Albert Ellis


Love one another and you will be happy.  It's as simple and as difficult as that.  ~Michael Leunig


Who would give a law to lovers?  Love is unto itself a higher law.  ~Boethius, The Consolation of Philosophy, A.D. 524


Who, being loved, is poor?  ~Oscar Wilde


Love must be as much a light, as it is a flame.  ~Henry David Thoreau


To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com


Without love, what are we worth?  Eighty-nine cents!  Eighty-nine cents worth of chemicals walking around lonely.  ~Laurence Marks, M*A*S*H, "Love Story," original air date 7 January 1973, spoken by the character Hawkeye


A baby is born with a need to be loved - and never outgrows it.  ~Frank A. Clark


Shall we compare our hearts to a garden -
with beautiful blooms, straggling weeds,
swooping birds and sunshine, rain -
and most importantly, seeds.
~Grey Livingston


Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.  ~Robert Heinlein


The hours I spend with you I look upon as sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight, and a fountain singing to it.  You and you alone make me feel that I am alive.  Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough.  ~George Moore


We loved with a love that was more than love.  ~Edgar Allan Poe


If I love you, what business is it of yours?  ~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


The hardest-learned lesson:  that people have only their kind of love to give, not our kind.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960


Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows out the candle and fans the bonfire.  ~François Duc de La Rochefoucauld


My debt to you, Belovèd,
Is one I cannot pay
In any coin of any realm
On any reckoning day.
~Jessie B. Rittenhouse


We choose those we like; with those we love, we have no say in the matter.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960


The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands.  ~Quoted by Alexandra Penney in Self


Love is, above all, the gift of oneself.  ~Jean Anouilh


When a man is in love or in debt, someone else has the advantage.  ~Bill Balance


Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly.  ~Rose Franken


Love is the magician that pulls man out of his own hat.  ~Ben Hecht


A bell is no bell 'til you ring it,
A song is no song 'til you sing it,
And love in your heart
Wasn’t put there to stay -
Love isn’t love
'Til you give it away.
~Oscar Hammerstein, Sound of Music, "You Are Sixteen (Reprise)"
(Thanks, Krystel)


Love is like dew that falls on both nettles and lilies.  ~Swedish Proverb


Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.  ~Henry Van Dyke


Love is much nicer to be in than an automobile accident, a tight girdle, a higher tax bracket or a holding pattern over Philadelphia.  ~Judith Viorst, Redbook, 1975


Passion makes the world go round.  Love just makes it a safer place.  ~Ice T, The Ice Opinion, quoted in Reader's Digest, "Quotable Quotes," February 2002


Love is no respecter of age or practicality
Neither morality: unabashed
She enters where she will
Unheeding that her immortal fires
Burn up human hearts...
~Phillip Pulfrey, from Beyond Me, www.originals.net


Love is an ocean of emotions entirely surrounded by expenses.  ~Lord Dewar


When you're in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to her; whether the light which surrounds her like a halo comes from you, from her, or from the meeting of your sparks.  ~Natalie Clifford Barney


Only in love are unity and duality not in conflict.  ~Rabindranath Tagore


It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.  ~John Bulwer


'Tis sweet to know there is an eye will mark our coming, and look brighter when we come.  ~Lord Byron


A hundred hearts would be too few
To carry all my love for you.
~Author Unknown


Love is the thing that enables a woman to sing while she mops up the floor after her husband has walked across it in his barn boots.  ~Author unknown, as printed in The Hoosier Farmer


Love is an exploding cigar we willingly smoke.  ~Lynda Barry


Those who are faithful know only the trivial side of love; it is the faithless who know love's tragedies.  ~Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1891


Love doesn't sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all of the time, made new.  ~Ursula K. LeGuin


Love is not singular except in syllable.  ~Marvin Taylor


Love is the word used to label the sexual excitement of the young, the habituation of the middle-aged, and the mutual dependence of the old.  ~John Ciardi


People who are sensible about love are incapable of it.  ~Douglas Yates


Love never reasons but profusely gives; gives, like a thoughtless prodigal, its all, and trembles lest it has done too little.  ~Hannah More (Thanks, Steven)


The past is behind us, love is in front and all around us.  ~Terri Guillemets


Ah me! why may not love and life be one?  ~Henry Timrod


Take away love and our earth is a tomb.  ~Robert Browning


Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds.  ~William Shakespeare, "Sonnet CXVI"


He felt now that he was not simply close to her, but that he did not know where he ended and she began.  ~Leo Tolstoy


It is the same in love as in war; a fortress that parleys is half taken.  ~Marguerite de Valois


You don't have to go looking for love when it's where you come from.  ~Werner Erhard


Sometimes the shortest distance between two points is a winding path walked arm in arm.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com


No one can understand love who has not experienced infatuation.  And no one can understand infatuation, no matter how many times he has experienced it.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960


Love me and the world is mine.  ~David Reed


It would be impossible to "love" anyone or anything one knew completely.  Love is directed towards what lies hidden in its object.  ~Paul Valéry, Tel quel, 1943


The love game is never called off on account of darkness.  ~Tom Masson


They who meet on an April night are forever lost in love, if there's moonlight all about and there's no moon above.  ~E.Y. "Yip" Harburg and Fred Saidy, dialogue just before the song "Old Devil Moon" in the musical Finian's Rainbow  (Thanks, Katherine!)


Sometimes it's a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence.  ~David Byrne


Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.  ~Robert Frost


You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.  ~Dr. Seuss


Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.  ~Zora Neale Hurston


Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.  ~Emily Brontë


The excesses of love soon pass, but its insufficiencies torment us forever.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960


An old man in love is like a flower in winter.  ~Portuguese Proverb


Will you love me in December as you do in May,
Will you love me in the good old fashioned way?
When my hair has all turned gray,
Will you kiss me then and say,
That you love me in December as you do in May?
~James J. Walker


Love unlocks doors and opens windows that weren't even there before.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966


Great love affairs start with Champagne and end with tisane.  ~Honoré de Balzac


Love withers under constraints: its very essence is liberty: it is compatible neither with obedience, jealousy, nor fear: it is there most pure, perfect, and unlimited where its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve.  ~Percy Bysshe Shelley


Love is the poetry of the senses.  ~Honoré de Balzac


Love is a game that two can play and both win.  ~Eva Gabor


Without love, the rich and poor live in the same house.  ~Author Unknown


The heart is a small thing, but desireth great matters.  It is not sufficient for a kite's dinner, yet the whole world is not sufficient for it.  ~Francis Quarles, Emblems


Love is like those second-rate hotels where all the luxury is in the lobby.  ~Paul-Jean Toulet


We don't believe in rheumatism and true love until after the first attack.  ~Marie Ebner Von Eschenbach, Aphorism


We picture love as heart-shaped because we do not know the shape of the soul.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com


All love is probationary, a fact which frightens women and exhilarates men.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966


True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen.  ~François, duc de La Rochefoucauld


Some women love only what they can hold in their arms; others, only what they can't.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966


Love, and a cough, cannot be hid.  ~George Herbert, Jacula Prudentum, 1651


Desire creates havoc when it is the only thing between two people, or when it is what's missing.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960


Poetry spills from the cracks of a broken heart, but flows from one which is loved.  ~Christopher Paul Rubero


A man is not where he lives, but where he loves.  ~Latin Proverb


The arms of love encompass you with your present, your past, your future, the arms of love gather you together.  ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Southern Mail, 1929, translated from French by Curtis Cate


I need the starshine of your heavenly eyes,
After the day's great sun.
~Charles Hanson Towne


A lover is a man who tries to be more amiable than it is possible for him to be.  ~Nicholas de Chamfort


Love is not consolation.  It is light.  ~Friedrich Nietzsche


True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights.  If you hear bells, get your ears checked.  ~Erich Segal


Love is the greatest touch-up artist of all.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com


Loving is never a waste of time.  ~Astrid Alauda


Love in action is a harsh and dreadful thing compared with love in dreams.  ~Fyodor Dostoevski


True love is a discipline in which each divines the secret self of the other and refuses to believe in the mere daily self.  ~William Butler Yeats


Mumps, measles, and puppy love are terrible after twenty.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960


You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving.  ~Author Unknown


Love is what you've been through with somebody.  ~James Thurber, quoted in Life magazine, 1960


Love is being stupid together.  ~Paul Valery


In this horror of solitude, this need to lose his ego in exterior flesh, which man calls grandly the need for love.  ~Charles Baudelaire


Open your heart and take us in,
Love - love and me.
~W.E. Henley


On a cloudy night, when nothing seems above, still, there is love.  Always love.  For something, from someone.  It's never done.  Never.  ~Jeb Dickerson, www.howtomatter.com


Before I met my husband, I'd never fallen in love.  I'd stepped in it a few times.  ~Rita Rudner


Love does not care to define and is never in a hurry to do so.  ~Charles du Bos


I love you like crazy, baby
'Cuz I'd go crazy without you.
~Pixie Foudre


What "love" is I don't know if it's not the response of our deepest natures to one another.  ~William Carlos Williams


I learned the real meaning of love.  Love is absolute loyalty.  People fade, looks fade, but loyalty never fades.  You can depend so much on certain people, you can set your watch by them.  And that's love, even if it doesn't seem very exciting.  ~Sylvester Stallone


Ah, lady, when I gave my heart to thee,
It passed into thy lifelong regency.
~Gilbert Parker


The heart has its reasons that reason knows nothing of.  ~Blaise Pascal, Pensées, 1670


At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet.  ~Plato


As soon go kindle fire with snow, as seek to quench the fire of love with words.  ~William Shakespeare


 
 
Love is like a friendship caught on fire.  In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering.  As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.  ~Bruce Lee


Life only starts when love comes.  ~From the movie Bill of Divorcement, 1932


Tell me how many beads there are
In a silver chain
Of evening rain,
Unravelled from the tumbling main,
And threading the eye of a yellow star: -
So many times do I love again.
~Thomas Lovell Beddoes


A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy.  ~George Jean Nathan


Love makes time pass; time makes love pass.  ~French Proverb


True love stories never have endings.  ~Richard Bach (Thanks, Bonnie)


It is not that love is blind.  It is that love sees with a painter's eye, finding the essence that renders all else background.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com


I love you as you are, but do not tell me how that is.  ~Antonio Porchia, Voces, 1943, translated from Spanish by W.S. Merwin


When you're attracted to someone it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously, so what we know as fate is two neuroses knowing that they're a perfect match.  ~Jeff Arch, Nora Ephron, and David S. Ward, Sleepless in Seattle


Platonic love is love from the neck up.  ~Thyra Smater Winsolow


We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.  ~Tom Robbins


The eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was important to them: there ought to be as many for love.  ~Margaret Atwood


You really shouldn't say "I love you" unless you mean it.  But if you mean it, you should say it a lot.  People forget.  ~Author unknown, attributed to an 8-year-old named Jessica


Some say that true love is a mirage; seek it anyway, for all else is surely desert.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com


So dear I love him, that with him all deaths I could endure, without him live no life.  ~John Milton


Nobody has ever measured, even poets, how much a heart can hold.  ~Zelda Fitzgerald


Men love because they are afraid of themselves, afraid of the loneliness that lives in them, and need someone in whom they can lose themselves as smoke loses itself in the sky.  ~V.F. Calverton


Love is the most important thing in the world, but baseball is pretty good too.  ~Author unknown, attributed to an 8-year-old named Greg


Lust fades, so you'd better be with someone who can stand you.  ~Alan Zweibel and Jessie Nelson, The Story of Us


Ah! a blessing beyond all fate
My sole mate 'tis my soul mate.
~Pixie Foudre


The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved - loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.  ~Victor Hugo


Love is the greatest refreshment in life.  ~Pablo Picasso


I was half in love with her by the time we sat down.  That's the thing about girls.  Every time they do something pretty, even if they're not much to look at, or even if they're sort of stupid, you fall half in love with them, and then you never know where the hell you are.  ~J.D. Salinger, The Catcher in the Rye, 1945


Love means nothing in tennis, but it's everything in life.  ~Author Unknown


What the world really needs is more love and less paper work.  ~Pearl Bailey


Love is when you can be your true self with someone, and you only want to be your true self because of them.  ~Terri Guillemets


Once a man has won a woman's love, the love is his forever.  He can only lose the woman.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com


Love, love, love - all the wretched cant of it, masking egotism, lust, masochism, fantasy under a mythology of sentimental postures.  ~Germaine Greer


We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love.  It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.  ~W. Somerset Maugham


We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.  ~Author Unknown


Love is a canvas furnished by Nature and embroidered by imagination.  ~Voltaire


Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs.  ~William Shakespeare


While God waits for His temple to be built of love, men bring stones.  ~Rabindranath Tagore


Love is metaphysical gravity.  ~R. Buckminster Fuller


Love is my religion - I could die for it.  ~John Keats


Love is the self-delusion we manufacture to justify the trouble we take to have sex.  ~Dan Greenburg


Love would never be a promise of a rose garden unless it is showered with light of faith, water of sincerity and air of passion.  ~Author Unknown


Just because somebody doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.  ~Author Unknown


If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?  ~Author Unknown


Anyone can catch your eye, but it takes someone special to catch your heart.  ~Author Unknown


Love is missing someone whenever you're apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you're close in heart.  ~Kay Knudsen


Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.  ~Henry Louis Mencken


You learn to like someone when you find out what makes them laugh, but you can never truly love someone until you find out what makes them cry.  ~Author Unknown


Sometimes we make love with our eyes.  Sometimes we make love with our hands.  Sometimes we make love with our bodies.  Always we make love with our hearts.  ~Author Unknown


True love is when you put someone on a pedestal, and they fall - but you are there to catch them.  ~Author Unknown


You know when you have found your prince because you not only have a smile on your face but in your heart as well.  ~Author Unknown


Love puts the fun in together, the sad in apart, and the joy in a heart.  ~Author Unknown


Trip over love, you can get up.  Fall in love and you fall forever.  ~Author Unknown


Love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image... otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.  ~Author Unknown


Love is not blind - it sees more, not less.  But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.  ~Julins Gordon


To the world you might be one person, but to one person you might be the world.  ~Author Unknown


No one has ever loved anyone the way everyone wants to be loved.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960


Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.  ~Oliver Wendell Holmes


Today's Multiple Choice Thought
There is no place where a loving touch so completely compensates for an unskilled hand as in:
   a. the bedroom
   b. the nursery
   c. the garden
   d. all of the above.
I guess, when you get down to it, a loving touch compensates for an unskilled hand about everywhere except in an airplane cockpit.  ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com


It's so easy to fall in love but hard to find someone who will catch you.  ~Author Unknown


When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving oneself, and one always ends by deceiving others.  That is what the world calls a romance.  ~Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray


Candle light, moon light, star light,
The brightest glow is from love light.
~Grey Livingston


Love is the silent saying and saying of a single name.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960


Come live in my heart and pay no rent.  ~Samuel Lover


Romance is dead - it was acquired in a hostile takeover by Hallmark and Disney, homogenized, and sold off piece by piece.  ~Lisa Simpson, The Simpsons


If love does not know how to give and take without restrictions, it is not love, but a transaction that never fails to lay stress on a plus and a minus.  ~Emma Goldman, The Tragedy of Women's Emancipation


I but know that I love thee, whatever thou art.  ~Thomas Moore


Love isn't blind, it's retarded.  ~Don Foster and Susan Beavers, Two and a Half Men


Free love? as if love is anything but free.  Man has bought brains, but all the millions in the world have failed to buy love.  ~Emma Goldman, Marriage and Love


Love is the child of illusion and the parent of disillusion.  ~Miguel de Unamuno


If you press me to say why I loved him, I can say no more than because he was he, and I was I.  ~Michel de Montaigne


I don't wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone.  ~Javan


Like I've always said, love wouldn't be blind if the braille weren't so damned much fun.  ~Armistead Maupin, Maybe the Moon  (Thanks, David)


Part of the reason that men seem so much less loving than women is that men's behavior is measured with a feminine ruler.  ~Francesca M. Cancian


What I need to live has been given to me by the earth.  Why I need to live has been given to me by you.  ~Author Unknown


If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden.  ~Claudia Ghandi


Falling in love is so hard on the knees.  ~Aerosmith


In true love the smallest distance is too great, and the greatest distance can be bridged.  ~Hans Nouwens


Like everybody who is not in love, he thought one chose the person to be loved after endless deliberations and on the basis of particular qualities or advantages.  ~Marcel Proust, Remembrance of Things Past: Cities of the Plain, 1922


In springtime, love is carried on the breeze.  Watch out for flying passion or kisses whizzing by your head.  ~Terri Guillemets


The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.  ~G.K. Chesterton


I think we dream so we don't have to be apart so long.  If we're in each other's dreams, we can play together all night.  ~Bill Watterson, Calvin & Hobbes


Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else.  ~George Bernard Shaw


The simple lack of her is more to me than others' presence.  ~Edward Thomas


[W]hen you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.  ~Nora Ephron, When Harry Met Sally
 

Love phrases

1. Someone who loves you can not give a reason why, he loves you. He just knew, in the eyes of him, you're one of them ...

2. Someone who loves you, always makes you really angry / mad / upset / stressed. But he never knew it was stupid what he did, because all he did was for your sake ...

3. Someone who loves you, seldom praise you, but at heart you are the best, only he knew ...

4. Someone who loves you, will get angry or complain if you do not reply to a message or phone him, because he cares and he does not want anything to happen to you ...

5. Someone who loves you, just before you drop tears. When you try to remove the tears from his eyes, you've touched him, and where his heart always beat / pulse / vibrate for you ...

6. Someone who loves you, will remember every word that you say, even accidentally, and he will always use those words right time ...

7. Someone who loves you will not give any promises easily, because he would not break her promise. He wants you to trust him and he wanted to live the most happy and secure for all eternity ...

8. Someone who loves you, probably can not remember the events / special occasions, such as your birthday celebration, but he knew that every second that she passed, she loves you, no matter what day today ...

9. Someone who loves you, do not want to say I love you with easy, because everything he does for you is to show that he was ready to love you, but only he who will say the words "I LOVE U" in a special situation, because he does not want you misunderstand me, he wants you to know that he loves you ...

10. Someone who really loves you, will feel that something should be said just once, because he thinks that you have understood him. If you say too much, he will feel that nothing will make him happy / smiling ...

11. Someone who loves you, will go to the airport to fetch you, he will not have a bunch of roses and call you darling like what you expect. But, he'll bring your suitcase and ask: Why did you become thinner in two days time? With a sincere heart.

12. Someone who loves you, do not know whether he should call you when you're angry, but he will send a message after a few hours. If you ask: why did he call late, he would say: When you're angry, an explanation from him all a waste. But when you've calmed down, a new explanation will benar2 work / works / useful ...

13. Someone who loves you, will always keep all the things that you have provided, even a small paper titled 'I LOVE U' is in his wallet ...

14.Seseorang who loves you, seldom say sweet words. But you know, 'kiss' has distributed all. Someone who loves you will always try to make you smile and laugh even though sometimes the way to confuse ...

15. Someone who loves you, will bind ever hurt your heart with a sincere heart and keep it in order not to hurt again and he will give you the best have to hurt her own though ...

16. Someone who loves you, will willingly let you go away if you are not happy with him and he will join his beloved happy even though you happy with someone else.

17. Someone who loves you will say, "Honey, let's get married!", After the Make Out with you. This indicates that he knows to forward it should be no marriage.

6 Attitude Girl Sucks According Boys




1. Depending Being

While still single, you are very independent. But after a lover, you suddenly wanted him to pick up and take you there-here. It is perfectly normal, actually, but still there are limitations.
Within normal limits, he love to, if needed, but if it came to the stages of dependency, they will feel uncomfortable and even avoided. Although he will always be there for you, still show your independence. They are lovers, not a bodyguard or driver.

2. Mouthed 'Sharp'
Criticize other women whether it's clothes, make-up or overall appearance is normal for you. But for men, it can be considered as your refusal to the excess of others. The man never noticed the details. For them if a beautiful woman, then she is beautiful even though mismatched clothes and dressed.

The way that he was not pissed at you? Hold yourself to criticize. Keep your comment to be divided into female friends while chatting and being together.

3. Shopping Mad

You may be happy to spend, but do not ever invite lovers to take part in hunting your target groceries. Definition of shopping is not the same man as a woman. Spend time looking, weighing and try something in the shops but not necessarily buying is not something she likes.
If you want to accompany you shopping lovers, should think again. If indeed it is definitely buying a particular item, no problem. But if you're still "looking", it would be cool if you ask your female friends.

4. Too Old Storytelling
Told me at length about the experience is something you normally do with women friends. Questions like: "How are you today?" Can culminate in a series of vent. But not for men. Question for those requiring only answer "Yes", "Ordinary course" or "Bad". Instead do not care, they just do not need every detail.

If they see you're having problems, they would ask more. And that's when you start to be an all-out vent to your spouse and ask for support.

5. Pretending Jealous
Acting jealous if your lover with his girlfriend for you it might be fun. Because she was a concern and to show that he is yours. But the acting is too often, would bother him.

Be careful if you pretend to be jealous, let alone accuse him of all sorts. Maybe you mean well, so the relationship remained cordial, but if this is all too often, could trigger a war between you and your partner.

6. Sign in personal area

Occasionally you may just see an sms on his mobile, but that does not mean you should open your inbox and peep all the short message whenever you want.

I'm Falling in Love and Broken Hearts


love, longing, pain and painful ..
all mixed into one in this heart ..
whether the words let alone that I raised is not for you ..

your heart happier to see me suffer?
lugaskah laugh I miss your lips dikala?

I still remembered the beginning we meet ..
are interested me and I recognize more in you ..
I realized so many wonderful things to you
you make me fall in love with you ..

the seconds ticking .. I also know you deeper and deeper ..
also deepened my love to you ..
the sea was like falling in love with the beach ..
Such is also my love to you ..

but why, you mind me?
you do not care anymore if I ..
even any you're not going to look ..
sehina that why I'm in your eyes?

I knew it was not me who is in your heart ..
Should this torture but you give your heart and this love?

please, stop my wounds ..
stop my pain ..
just say if you do not care anymore ..
then I'll stop there in front of

I'm not disappear like dust in the wind ..
to keep you happy without hurting ..

Difference of Love and Honey


Love, and sweetheart, whether the same or any difference? People think love is different with affection, and unisex think love is the same as affection.

What exactly is the meaning of love is ...???? From the definition of the meaning of love that I receive from my friends yesterday, there is one that explains that it is LOVE:

"I LOVE you as EGO identikan
EGO for men who adore thee "

means:

Love is selfish ....????
LOVE does not look or about to fall where he will lean
LOVE does not see, he already owned or not .......


While LOVE ...?????
Affection usually reserved for the family, we love to parents, love to the husband or wife, child care, or care to BOYFRIENDS, could also love to our friends. And usually deeper than LOVE LOVE, LOVE can make you willing to sacrifice and willing to suffer for the people you care about.

"LOVE it arises before we memilki, while feeling arises when we memilki BABY, and there is no necessity that forces us to have"

A wounded soul



Lara suddenly sadness and soul menggunjang
Her departure makes the body as lifeless
There is no hell with the soul ..
His life is empty without a lover who always adored ..

Ego is there sometimes make sport struggling.
Mengkesampingkan feeling of being wounded souls
Let him dominate the sport
Regardless of the pain and injuries


Now the sport began to wail cuts
Powerless to withstand the turmoil that is in the soul
That desire can not be rejected sports
Eliminating ego, which has been covered

God .... Not blame this feeling
Feelings of love are eternal souls
Pure love that dwells within the heart
Never be replaced ato tarnished ego within himself

God .... Was Wrong soul begged her true love
Return it to embrace his role in
Asked tuk is always there
Making the companion to the mind and soul

Maybe it has tarnished the world body
Tp soul will never replace the love of his life
Remain hopeful that love will be with him
Spent the evening until the end of

Happiness is here



There is a phrase which is in its meaning, conveyed in a book of Shaykh Abi Madiin Tahdzib Madarijus Salikin. He said: "People who have actually committed the nature of servitude (ubudiyah), will see the actions of riya glasses. Looking at him with eyes of suspicious circumstances. Seeing eye to what she said with accusation." He then explained that such conditions arise due to the increased demands perfection in oneself. "The higher demand in your heart, the more you look at yourself kecillah. And the more expensive the price that must be accomplished to get your heart demands it." (Tahdzib Madarijus Salikin, 119)

So, do not stop pondering and self muhasabah each of us. It's a lot of holes that we must be aware of in the middle of life that is full of slander and deceit are.

Humans, created in a state of difficulty. Indeed Allah's provisions. The Qur'an mentioned this problem in his words, "Laqad khalaq nal insaana FII kabad"; Indeed We created man in a state kabad or difficulty. (Surat al-Balad: 4). The word `kabad 'in the dictionary Mu'jam Al Washit defined by the word` ana wa masyaqqah means difficulty and distress. Yes, it is difficult and hard. That's what would have graced the lives of all.

Do not be fooled by the fact of life. Do not be fooled by the blows that life problems. Too many clues the word of Allah and the Messenger of God that leads us to understand that reality. Life is indeed where we forged, tested with all the circumstances. "We will try you with evil and goodness of a trial (which in truth). And, just to Us you shall be returned." So Allah says in surah Al-Anbiya verse 35.

Number of warnings about the life of the Holy Qur'an, is that we are not shocked by the disaster, disaster, and the variety of life issues. People who have known before he felt something heavy, certainly will be lightweight when he felt it. People who do not know something difficult, would have been shocked and felt so bad when he got into trouble. That's it.

Abu Sa'eed al Khudri ra had once visited the Prophet while he was suffering from fever, before his death. "I put my hand on his person. I feel the heat in my hand on the blanket. Then I said:" O Messenger of Allah, how hard this illness. "Apostle said," That's what we (the prophets). Dilipatkan temptation to us and also increased the reward for us. "I asked," O Messenger of Allah, who were the most severe trials? "He replied:" The Prophet. "I asked again," O Messenger of Allah, then who else? "Apostle says , "People salih. If one of them was tested by poverty, are tested until one of them did not get anything except coat collected. But, if one of them was given a test of pleasure, is as one of you happy that luxury. "(Narrated by Ibn Majah)

We definitely want a happy life, away from trouble and sorrow. No problem is burdensome. Yes, we all want to be happy. True life and happiness that can only be achieved through closeness to God, through worship and deeds keshalihan. Only that way.

Think about it, how the condition of the heart, when we conduct the activities of worship to Allah swt. Think, too, how the atmosphere of the heart when we do worship with congregational prayer performed. Gembirakah? Happier? Bercahayakah? The answer is, yes. Uncertain. Hear how the sound of prayers recommended by the Prophet, to be read when we go to the mosque, "O Allah, make light in my heart. In the words of light. Make on hearing of light. Make the vision of light. Make it from behind the light and from my front light. Make it from me the light and the light from underneath me. O Allah, give me light, and make me light. " (Narrated by Muslim, Abu Dawud dun)

The light that will illuminate the soul. Luminous soul will surely feel the happiness and peace. That is the essence of human life that is often forgotten. Maybe by us as well. We are many who find happiness supply from sources that do not have the happiness that gives peace. We often hung happiness from the actual circumstances and conditions do not smuggle reassure happiness.

Ibn al-Qayyim mengistilahkan state of feeling happy and calm the soul with the term bathiniyah Rahmah (compassion mind), which God gave to His servants who do obedience. Compassion is a touch those inner feelings in someone's heart, which had unfortunate form of serenity and tranquility. Do not fret and do not worry. Consider the words describe the situation who have the inner love that, "A servant can be a very busy just feel his love, when he faced severe hardships. He's thinking like that, because it believes that it is the best option that is set to His. "

Pearl of Love is an understanding



There is a proverb which create their own stars: Pearl of Love is just a mere understanding. It may sound simple, simple, but behind all that saved a very deep meaning. Sedalah Atlantic ocean! Then what love relationships and pengeritan Dunk. it all is love.

Love is not just words but it is an act. And a logic of action is based on the principle of understanding. Is not a wise thing if you only make people think you're understanding, but otherwise not at all. So that's the deepest core:

Pearl is Love, and the foundation of all that is not the wise words given

but is understanding. A sense of understanding each other with full persaan.

For example: With your partner could memborbardirnya with various said the word love. But if it is not based on a simple word of understanding. Stars guess it was not a wise action. Absolutely.

Did you know our ancestors are examples of everything. How humans fought for a very very small difference at all. That is a fate that can not be avoided: Hatred and love. But all that will be eaten away like a rotten kiwi, like many of the missing vocabulary. Pearls of hatred is a misunderstanding

And you already announcing what pearls of love?

Forget about mistakes, because human beings are created for can not avoid it. And this is the Absolute. The highest caste of understanding is the word SORRY. Very difficult to forgive when the person you used to be always blamed. But that's life, all will become much more meaningful and wiser if we would understand each other and love the difference. A difference that can not be ditolah humans since birth.

No matter where your race was born, but the one we have common ancestors: Adam, Give them the sense that it was not to be understood. But how do you make sense of them and how you love them.

All the above does not reflect the wise words of the author's behavior ... ..

Motivation: Dealing with Life Issues

Consider the title. "Facing the Problems of Life." Not "Living the Life Issues." Harder for us to get out of the problems in life, if we are still down and drowned in it. Instantly we meniatkan to "face", realize that we are actually already "out" of the problem.

What is important for us is to answer the question, "what's next?". The absence of answers to this question, it will make us come back "entrance" into the matter. Yes, indeed, a magnet from every problem tends to be very large. We can not deny this is a matter that requires learning the art of living. When necessary for life. Let's learn together.

1. BSE

So, our best efforts the first is an awareness of the existence of matter and about understanding how to separate "self" from "problem". Most of what is written here is the art of it.

"It Is not That they want can not see the solution. It's that they want can not see the problem. "
G. K. Chesterton

2. THANK

Never deny the existence of the problem. If he really and truly, thank first. Separate these two things: "no problem" and "I have a problem." When we feel frustrated, then we really are in trouble to separate these two perspectives. Be aware.

"You will not find a solution by saying 'there is no problem."
William Rotsler

3. SOLUTION is in it

Every problem, certainly always carry the seeds of completion. And whose name seeds, nature is suitable for growing. So the issue or problem, is about how God really is to grow and mature us.

We can dive into again the meaning of Surah Al-Sharh (Natural Nasyrah) in our holy book.

"Verily with difficulty that there is ease."
(QS.94: 6)

"If you do not have any problems, you do not get any seeds."
Norman Vincent Peale

4. Settle

The problem will only be passed if it were completed.

"The best way to escape from your problem is to solve it"
Dr. Robert Anthony

"The best way out is always through."
Helen Keller

Learn about how and systematic patterns in solving problems. Learn auditing for various problems.

5. Raise LEVEL THINKING

Our problem appears on a level or way of thinking. That problem will be solved only if we raise our level of thinking. This can be done by learning the ins and outs of the issue and to train a problem solving mindset.

The easiest way: Lower level of importance of the problem. This can be done by asking questions that test the level of interest problems.

This exercise will familiarize himmah (inclination, desire, intention, determination, will, spirit, attitude liked or loved, love) the hearts and our mindset, to the other things that much better for ourselves.

"Is this problem really a problem?"
"What is 'this problem' is the only way I view it?"
"Is there something better than what is the problem?"

There are so many things that we consider the problem, actually only a trivial issue. "Problem" of this kind can be done precisely by not regard it as a problem.

Face it the only really a problem.

"Problems Can not be solved at the Same level of awareness That created Them."
Albert Einstein

6. IF NECESSARY: Writing

If we deem necessary, write down the problems we face. Give all the details that we can think of. By doing this, we can begin to organize, select, and sort out the main points that we face problems.

7. SEARCH SOLUTIONS

We're not going to find, if we are not looking.

Always trying to find a solution. Understand, if we seek we will find. We may not know when, but surely, we would find. Keep looking.

Patience, do not despair, and never give up.

8. TIME USE WITH WISDOM

Fill out our time with the search, find, and develop solutions. Be solution-oriented people. Please stop questioning and start asking. Questioning is a sign not received, and asked is the opposite.

Use only a little time to problems, and quickly move to find a solution.

9. Proportional

Do not let our problems become bigger than ourselves. Remember that "often", not necessarily synonymous with "large".

Each issue will be aturable (can be managed), when the problem can be translated into small fragments of the steps we need to take.

10. BE TRUE

Develop and train the right attitude to every problem. Practice for skilled 10/90 Principle by Stephen Covey. 10% is a fact, 90% is attitude.

If it is used, then we would call a "problem" will become a "learning experience" and "opportunity".

"10% of life is made up of What Happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react."
Stephen Covey

11. DO NOT SEE NO PROBLEM

Use the power of our imagination to find solutions. Do not use to dangle a problem that does not exist.

Hopefully useful.

"Verily with difficulty that there is ease."
(QS.94: 6)

In fact, with a difficulty, there are two (at least) easy. The first ease is when we "face" and not "live". Ease second is when we shift the focus to the Most Compassionate and Merciful.

Do not we have ruled to uphold his weight with the County of two things' that will be a relief that help?

Patience and prayer.