Motivation: Dealing with Life Issues
Consider the title. "Facing the Problems of Life." Not "Living the Life Issues." Harder for us to get out of the problems in life, if we are still down and drowned in it. Instantly we meniatkan to "face", realize that we are actually already "out" of the problem.
What is important for us is to answer the question, "what's next?". The absence of answers to this question, it will make us come back "entrance" into the matter. Yes, indeed, a magnet from every problem tends to be very large. We can not deny this is a matter that requires learning the art of living. When necessary for life. Let's learn together.
1. BSE
So, our best efforts the first is an awareness of the existence of matter and about understanding how to separate "self" from "problem". Most of what is written here is the art of it.
"It Is not That they want can not see the solution. It's that they want can not see the problem. "
G. K. Chesterton
2. THANK
Never deny the existence of the problem. If he really and truly, thank first. Separate these two things: "no problem" and "I have a problem." When we feel frustrated, then we really are in trouble to separate these two perspectives. Be aware.
"You will not find a solution by saying 'there is no problem."
William Rotsler
3. SOLUTION is in it
Every problem, certainly always carry the seeds of completion. And whose name seeds, nature is suitable for growing. So the issue or problem, is about how God really is to grow and mature us.
We can dive into again the meaning of Surah Al-Sharh (Natural Nasyrah) in our holy book.
"Verily with difficulty that there is ease."
(QS.94: 6)
"If you do not have any problems, you do not get any seeds."
Norman Vincent Peale
4. Settle
The problem will only be passed if it were completed.
"The best way to escape from your problem is to solve it"
Dr. Robert Anthony
"The best way out is always through."
Helen Keller
Learn about how and systematic patterns in solving problems. Learn auditing for various problems.
5. Raise LEVEL THINKING
Our problem appears on a level or way of thinking. That problem will be solved only if we raise our level of thinking. This can be done by learning the ins and outs of the issue and to train a problem solving mindset.
The easiest way: Lower level of importance of the problem. This can be done by asking questions that test the level of interest problems.
This exercise will familiarize himmah (inclination, desire, intention, determination, will, spirit, attitude liked or loved, love) the hearts and our mindset, to the other things that much better for ourselves.
"Is this problem really a problem?"
"What is 'this problem' is the only way I view it?"
"Is there something better than what is the problem?"
There are so many things that we consider the problem, actually only a trivial issue. "Problem" of this kind can be done precisely by not regard it as a problem.
Face it the only really a problem.
"Problems Can not be solved at the Same level of awareness That created Them."
Albert Einstein
6. IF NECESSARY: Writing
If we deem necessary, write down the problems we face. Give all the details that we can think of. By doing this, we can begin to organize, select, and sort out the main points that we face problems.
7. SEARCH SOLUTIONS
We're not going to find, if we are not looking.
Always trying to find a solution. Understand, if we seek we will find. We may not know when, but surely, we would find. Keep looking.
Patience, do not despair, and never give up.
8. TIME USE WITH WISDOM
Fill out our time with the search, find, and develop solutions. Be solution-oriented people. Please stop questioning and start asking. Questioning is a sign not received, and asked is the opposite.
Use only a little time to problems, and quickly move to find a solution.
9. Proportional
Do not let our problems become bigger than ourselves. Remember that "often", not necessarily synonymous with "large".
Each issue will be aturable (can be managed), when the problem can be translated into small fragments of the steps we need to take.
10. BE TRUE
Develop and train the right attitude to every problem. Practice for skilled 10/90 Principle by Stephen Covey. 10% is a fact, 90% is attitude.
If it is used, then we would call a "problem" will become a "learning experience" and "opportunity".
"10% of life is made up of What Happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react."
Stephen Covey
11. DO NOT SEE NO PROBLEM
Use the power of our imagination to find solutions. Do not use to dangle a problem that does not exist.
Hopefully useful.
"Verily with difficulty that there is ease."
(QS.94: 6)
In fact, with a difficulty, there are two (at least) easy. The first ease is when we "face" and not "live". Ease second is when we shift the focus to the Most Compassionate and Merciful.
Do not we have ruled to uphold his weight with the County of two things' that will be a relief that help?
Patience and prayer.
What is important for us is to answer the question, "what's next?". The absence of answers to this question, it will make us come back "entrance" into the matter. Yes, indeed, a magnet from every problem tends to be very large. We can not deny this is a matter that requires learning the art of living. When necessary for life. Let's learn together.
1. BSE
So, our best efforts the first is an awareness of the existence of matter and about understanding how to separate "self" from "problem". Most of what is written here is the art of it.
"It Is not That they want can not see the solution. It's that they want can not see the problem. "
G. K. Chesterton
2. THANK
Never deny the existence of the problem. If he really and truly, thank first. Separate these two things: "no problem" and "I have a problem." When we feel frustrated, then we really are in trouble to separate these two perspectives. Be aware.
"You will not find a solution by saying 'there is no problem."
William Rotsler
3. SOLUTION is in it
Every problem, certainly always carry the seeds of completion. And whose name seeds, nature is suitable for growing. So the issue or problem, is about how God really is to grow and mature us.
We can dive into again the meaning of Surah Al-Sharh (Natural Nasyrah) in our holy book.
"Verily with difficulty that there is ease."
(QS.94: 6)
"If you do not have any problems, you do not get any seeds."
Norman Vincent Peale
4. Settle
The problem will only be passed if it were completed.
"The best way to escape from your problem is to solve it"
Dr. Robert Anthony
"The best way out is always through."
Helen Keller
Learn about how and systematic patterns in solving problems. Learn auditing for various problems.
5. Raise LEVEL THINKING
Our problem appears on a level or way of thinking. That problem will be solved only if we raise our level of thinking. This can be done by learning the ins and outs of the issue and to train a problem solving mindset.
The easiest way: Lower level of importance of the problem. This can be done by asking questions that test the level of interest problems.
This exercise will familiarize himmah (inclination, desire, intention, determination, will, spirit, attitude liked or loved, love) the hearts and our mindset, to the other things that much better for ourselves.
"Is this problem really a problem?"
"What is 'this problem' is the only way I view it?"
"Is there something better than what is the problem?"
There are so many things that we consider the problem, actually only a trivial issue. "Problem" of this kind can be done precisely by not regard it as a problem.
Face it the only really a problem.
"Problems Can not be solved at the Same level of awareness That created Them."
Albert Einstein
6. IF NECESSARY: Writing
If we deem necessary, write down the problems we face. Give all the details that we can think of. By doing this, we can begin to organize, select, and sort out the main points that we face problems.
7. SEARCH SOLUTIONS
We're not going to find, if we are not looking.
Always trying to find a solution. Understand, if we seek we will find. We may not know when, but surely, we would find. Keep looking.
Patience, do not despair, and never give up.
8. TIME USE WITH WISDOM
Fill out our time with the search, find, and develop solutions. Be solution-oriented people. Please stop questioning and start asking. Questioning is a sign not received, and asked is the opposite.
Use only a little time to problems, and quickly move to find a solution.
9. Proportional
Do not let our problems become bigger than ourselves. Remember that "often", not necessarily synonymous with "large".
Each issue will be aturable (can be managed), when the problem can be translated into small fragments of the steps we need to take.
10. BE TRUE
Develop and train the right attitude to every problem. Practice for skilled 10/90 Principle by Stephen Covey. 10% is a fact, 90% is attitude.
If it is used, then we would call a "problem" will become a "learning experience" and "opportunity".
"10% of life is made up of What Happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react."
Stephen Covey
11. DO NOT SEE NO PROBLEM
Use the power of our imagination to find solutions. Do not use to dangle a problem that does not exist.
Hopefully useful.
"Verily with difficulty that there is ease."
(QS.94: 6)
In fact, with a difficulty, there are two (at least) easy. The first ease is when we "face" and not "live". Ease second is when we shift the focus to the Most Compassionate and Merciful.
Do not we have ruled to uphold his weight with the County of two things' that will be a relief that help?
Patience and prayer.
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