Love Is Great ... Value the Love you have!

You may have lost someone, or things are not good ... but check out your life and realize what love you have. Personally, I have lots of people who love me including family and friends. Think about who loves you .... family, friends, pets? There are even people out there who might not really know you, but are caring and actually give love to those they don't know.

Check your life and think about who loves you ... Life is worth living, there is love in pretty much everyones life if you pay attention. And don't forget to let those you love know that you love them ... and let them know often!

Too often people regret not letting loved ones in their life know how much they are loved. If you don't already have a habit of telling your loved ones that you do love them ... start a new habit of doing it often. In my family, hugs are done often and before leaving or ending a cell phone conversation our closing statement is "Love you!" And an important thing is we mean it!

Animals like cats and dogs might not understand words or their emotions ... but they still do have emotions and can feel love, pain, loss, happiness. Many people have cats, dogs and other animals because they give love ... appreciate it.

Love you Marife, Sarah, Merry Fe, Mark & rest of family and friends ... and the cats: Carter, Jiji, Timble, Blossom, Abigail, Krystal. Not sure if the Chinchilla or fish have the love feelings. The Chinchilla sure do have loyalty and attraction. What do you think, do Chinchilla feel love?

She's My Love

I never saw him as perfect beings. Sesiapa who saw her face would not teruja. He's genial and modest self. Clever movement, bring out movement. Anyone who was around him, must feel himself the most attention.

She was simple, not too high nor too low. Bright-skinned, not too pale nor too dark. Very unkempt hair, not too kerinting nor too straight. Boxed tersikat Mencecah shoulder, in a portion of the edge of the hair almost mencecah ear lobe. It says there are nearly 20 uric gray hair of his head, kerana always thinking of others. His eyes were large, thin heel. Broad forehead, wide chest area.

He's my lover, my prophet, he was the messenger of Allah, Muhammad. King, noble beings.

His life was filled with kezuhudan. Adequately with what is, has become sebati in life. That is fastening my love to him.

Ever offered to become a king and a prophet like Solomon and David, but chose to become a servant and messenger. Apostle title servant, was his choice.

Key luxury world in his hands. But simplicity is chosen, even less than that. Ever saidina Umar entered the house of the prophet Muhammad, was surprised when he found the king's house shortage sundries. No perabut and jewelry. King slept on mats midrib, sometimes above ground only, leaving marks on the body of the king. Umar then requested that the prophet Muhammad prayed to his people so that extended the provision so rich, actually granted the luxury of Rome and Persia in a state they do not believe. Then answered the king,

I do not turn with the world, but like a merchant who was traveling, and then berehat immediately below the main hedge. After an instant, he will leave hedge vine.

The food is quite simple. Being a king's kitchen habits for three months without smoke. The main food is Tamar and empty the water tremble. Had to eat bread, the king will choose the cheapest bread. Dicicah with vinegar sake only. Never eat berhidang luxury. King never eats bread and meat at dinner and supper tengahari simultaneously in a day, but when visited by the guests' sake only.

His clothes also do not describe the luxury. Najran fond of wearing robes and Qatar. Rough cloth. Habit of choosing the color white. Shawl (izar) turban, sentiasa tersemat in the king's shoulder.

The departure does not leave anything behind. Even when death, war shields pledged to a Jew to get wheat flour.

However, the king left the love had gone. Love that is unparalleled. Love that if disahut, even with syafa'at diganjari big future in the Day of Judgement.

Warm really love me, and also on the overall race. So that at any moment picked your death, who play in our minds is fikiranmu is, as your people. Ummati, ummati, ummati.

O my beloved, my heart lights. Let the best and congratulations invocation of God rather than streaming keatasmu. Kurniakan God the deep longing to see you in the hereafter. God the desire to obey sunnahmu mencambah, sedayaku termampu.

He's my lover, she lover. My master Muhammad.

Important Tips Before Creating Love

Want your relationship with current partner and lasting? Check out these tips first, on how to build a healthy love life with these tips Find out first, on how to build a healthy love life with Si He.

Couple Choosing wisely.
Notice the character, personality, self worth, generosity, how to speak, act, and the way how he related to others.

The views and beliefs Si Know Him.
Of course you do not want to fall in love with someone who has a bad reputation in her love relationships, is not it? For example, Si He often caught dishonest and often lie.

Do Rancukan Sex With Love.
Especially in the beginning of a relationship, attraction and pleasure to have sex is often misconstrued as a passionate love of the couple.

Understand the Needs and Discuss In Definitely.
Many people, both men and women, afraid to express their needs. Remember, the proximity can not walk well without honesty, and the couple is not a psychic or a mind-reading experts.

Respect each other.
Both inside and outside the relationship, you and Si He should show each other proper attitude appreciated each spouse.

You and Si He As Tim Compact.
That is, you both are two unique individuals, who have the perspective and different advantages. These differences are a plus from a good team in doing many things together.

Know How to Manage Differences.
Learn how to overcome the negative feelings that are not inevitable, caused by the difference between you and your partner. Closing down or avoiding conflicts is also not a good way of managing difference!

Do not be embarrassed to ask.
If you do not understand or do not like one of the things couples do, ask him. Openly discuss and develop the discussion in the atmosphere is positive, and never assume.

Overcome Problems Occur.
Most errors that occur in a love relationship, can be traced from the emergence of heart pain, or change the defensive attitude towards their partner, so that creates another two people who feel foreign or hostile.

Negotiating learning.
Therefore, human needs and demands of life is always changing as time goes by, then a healthy loving relationship and both can be re-negotiated at any time with your partner.

Couple listening to concerns and complaints.
Do not impose judgments against the couple. Open yourself and give empathy to the couple.

Trying to Preserve Proximity.
A good and healthy relationship, not an end goal, but it is a long term process which should always be kept and maintained, through constant and regular attention.

Have a Long Term View.
Marriage is a mutual agreement to live and spend a day of life until old age. Closely with the partner of your dreams on a regular basis, to make sure you both are on the road and the path is always the same.

Sorry.
Everyone can make mistakes. Repair, or intend to fix the error, it is very important for both of you happiness, also a marriage.

Avoid Excessive dependence.
Depending upon the person is not bad, but very dependent on the partner for the little things is a gap of unhappiness for both partners.

Keep Self-Esteem and Confidence.
It's easier for someone to love and be around you if you even like yourself.

Enrich your relationship together.
Create new interests into your love relationship to do with the Si He's getting richer. The greater the passion of life you have and share with your partner, the richer your relationship.

Good cooperation.
Share responsibility with your spouse. A healthy love relationship will be successful only if it occurs in two directions, namely the mutual giving and receiving.

Tidal Know Relations.
Anywhere, any relationship will surely love the ebb and flow past each other. Through tough times with your partner, will make your relationship stronger.

Have a Bad Relationship and Over Sensitivity
Do not run away if the love affair began to deteriorate. Use of this bad experience as a mirror to look inside themselves, in order to understand what both of you create in this relationship.

There is no Absolute Love.
If you learn the ways or new tips for interacting with the Si He, feelings of love will always be able to appear and reappear, even stronger than before.

Love and Selfish

Love is a grace given by God to every human. Ego is a trait possessed by every human. Love and ego have a very close relationship, especially for new children entering adolescence. But teenagers sometimes misunderstand the meaning of love is caused by the ego. For this reason I wrote this article.

Understanding Love
Love is a feeling of affection and love which is owned by anyone. Whether it's the environment, animals, hobbies, even up to the opposite sex.
There are some words of love that exist in society at large, namely:
1. Love to the opposite sex is often referred to as "Falling in Love". Falling in love can be felt by anyone, anytime, and anywhere.
2. Her love for children adolescents often called "Love Monkey." Love monkeys usually occurs from age 11-12 years. But sometimes there are children who have come to know love at a young age, which is around the age of 7-8 years.
3. "Love at first sight" is a feeling like that appears on when you first met. People who feel it is usually claimed to have himself has fallen in love at first meet.
4. "Love Blind" is based on a feeling like that without any love someone and want to do anything for him without seeing what would happen.

There are several other terms associated with Love.
1. Term used to create a relationship that could be considered the official is "Dating". People who use this term to refer people he liked with the title "boyfriend".
2. "Jealousy" is the attitude of anger or rather do not like if the person likes or maybe "wow" her do something she does not want as close to others than by himself. This term is usually identified with the word "Envy". There is also the name "Blind Jealousy." Feelings of jealousy that arises without any or based on any evidence.
Understanding Ego
Ego is one common human nature which is owned by anyone. Feelings that made her want to do anything for herself. It usually happens without him realizing it. Size of the ego of every man is different, depending on whether the person's ability to hold or not.
Other factors that can make every human dose keegoan that differ are as follows:
1. Environmental factors. Keegoan someone that normally would be difficult to control if the environment is not supportive. As circumstances which required him to do anything to be able to get the best for himself. Usually due to competition, whether it is the competition for living or for money, and so forth.
2. Habit of factors. These factors are still related to Environmental Factors. This factor is caused by a comforting familiarity that are taught by parents to their children so that makes him feel anything she could get.
3. Descendants of factors. This factor is there because the ego is the nature of which can be "reduced" to the offspring. If a parent's ego bigger then his ego would usually great as well. Vice versa

Relations Between the Ego with Love
Feelings of love which we will discuss is the love among teenagers. Because adolescence is a time of peak keegoan someone. There are some interesting phenomena of love among teenagers. Like the phenomenon of "Disconnect one, there are many others" and the phenomenon of "molester and Playboy." The things that we will discuss.

"End one, there are many other"
Assuming the teens about the "End one, there are many others" are not wrong. The words were similar to the proverb "the Dead One, Grow Thousand." But assuming it's probably made him grow sad. Because the more often he's going out, the more often he's hurt, except if he has found a faithful people.

It is closely related to one's ego. In his opinion "Disconnect one, there are many other" that was already showing her selfishness. Because the sentence could mean "He tuh not nothing, there are many others too!". Although it could also intends to encourage the impulse to drowning in sorrow. But by saying so or something like that made him decide not to think about other people's feelings.

"Molester and Playboy"
The word 'cheating' and the word 'playboy' I joined because the 'playboy' is apparently synonymous with cheating. Although not everyone is a playboy who had an affair. And why I only use the word 'playboy' only, and do not use the word 'Playgirl'. Because the most frequently encountered was the playboy, and for me the playboy is the icon of the peselingkuh.

Molester is one of the deviant behavior of a relationship such as dating. Affair occurs because a selfish person can not be controlled. Thereby making them unable to think about other people's feelings, either her boyfriend or affair. Adverse effect of this behavior is tersakitinya molester feelings of others who left for an affair with someone else.

There are several reasons why people want an affair.
1. Because he was feeling bored with girlfriend and want to find new entertainment.
2. Because of the prestige and want to be considered great by a friend because it can have many boyfriends.
3. Because the feeling or love has been shared with others, so he's willing to take risks and having an affair.
While Playboy is the cap given to someone who likes having an affair. But sometimes the seal is also given to people who love mutually boyfriend. Playboy is like having an affair is a person who has the nature of indifference to others and do not care about the circumstances of others, including with whom she was dating. A Playboy will stop being a Playboy if he had found someone who fits with him. Usually it was in when she was entering adulthood can be said that already mature and understand what is good and what is bad.

It all happened due to mere selfishness. These are the most widely experienced by teenagers. In fact there are several parties who hate playboy and sometimes claim that all men are equal. People who like it are people looking with one eye on men. It is not wrong he believes that after he got the sad things like diduakan. But not all men are equal. There are boundaries and the ability of each man to hold her selfishness.

In fact some are blaming the love and hate. Whereas it is clear that the guilty is not love, but his ego. Already explained above that love is a feeling of affection which nature makes us feel good. If something happened that resulted in feelings of sadness, then it do not mean love. If anyone deserves blame, then blame it on yourself and ask "Egokah I?". If you feel you are not selfish, so be patient that you will get the best.

However, there are things more important for us to remember. That the ego exists in every human being and we must memakluminya. Especially on such a relationship dating, selfishness is a fairness to every teen. If you want to succeed in love, so be patient. (Fs)

Motivation: Dealing with Life Issues

Consider the title. "Facing the Problems of Life." Not "Living the Life Issues." Harder for us to get out of the problems in life, if we are still down and drowned in it. Instantly we meniatkan to "face", realize that we are actually already "out" of the problem.

What is important for us is to answer the question, "what's next?". The absence of answers to this question, it will make us come back "entrance" into the matter. Yes, indeed, a magnet from every problem tends to be very large. We can not deny this is a matter that requires learning the art of living. When necessary for life. Let's learn together.

1. BSE

So, our best efforts the first is an awareness of the existence of matter and about understanding how to separate "self" from "problem". Most of what is written here is the art of it.

"It Is not That they want can not see the solution. It's that they want can not see the problem. "
G. K. Chesterton

2. THANK

Never deny the existence of the problem. If he really and truly, thank first. Separate these two things: "no problem" and "I have a problem." When we feel frustrated, then we really are in trouble to separate these two perspectives. Be aware.

"You will not find a solution by saying 'there is no problem."
William Rotsler

3. SOLUTION is in it

Every problem, certainly always carry the seeds of completion. And whose name seeds, nature is suitable for growing. So the issue or problem, is about how God really is to grow and mature us.

We can dive into again the meaning of Surah Al-Sharh (Natural Nasyrah) in our holy book.

"Verily with difficulty that there is ease."
(QS.94: 6)

"If you do not have any problems, you do not get any seeds."
Norman Vincent Peale

4. Settle

The problem will only be passed if it were completed.

"The best way to escape from your problem is to solve it"
Dr. Robert Anthony

"The best way out is always through."
Helen Keller

Learn about how and systematic patterns in solving problems. Learn auditing for various problems.

5. Raise LEVEL THINKING

Our problem appears on a level or way of thinking. That problem will be solved only if we raise our level of thinking. This can be done by learning the ins and outs of the issue and to train a problem solving mindset.

The easiest way: Lower level of importance of the problem. This can be done by asking questions that test the level of interest problems.

This exercise will familiarize himmah (inclination, desire, intention, determination, will, spirit, attitude liked or loved, love) the hearts and our mindset, to the other things that much better for ourselves.

"Is this problem really a problem?"
"What is 'this problem' is the only way I view it?"
"Is there something better than what is the problem?"

There are so many things that we consider the problem, actually only a trivial issue. "Problem" of this kind can be done precisely by not regard it as a problem.

Face it the only really a problem.

"Problems Can not be solved at the Same level of awareness That created Them."
Albert Einstein

6. IF NECESSARY: Writing

If we deem necessary, write down the problems we face. Give all the details that we can think of. By doing this, we can begin to organize, select, and sort out the main points that we face problems.

7. SEARCH SOLUTIONS

We're not going to find, if we are not looking.

Always trying to find a solution. Understand, if we seek we will find. We may not know when, but surely, we would find. Keep looking.

Patience, do not despair, and never give up.

8. TIME USE WITH WISDOM

Fill out our time with the search, find, and develop solutions. Be solution-oriented people. Please stop questioning and start asking. Questioning is a sign not received, and asked is the opposite.

Use only a little time to problems, and quickly move to find a solution.

9. Proportional

Do not let our problems become bigger than ourselves. Remember that "often", not necessarily synonymous with "large".

Each issue will be aturable (can be managed), when the problem can be translated into small fragments of the steps we need to take.

10. BE TRUE

Develop and train the right attitude to every problem. Practice for skilled 10/90 Principle by Stephen Covey. 10% is a fact, 90% is attitude.

If it is used, then we would call a "problem" will become a "learning experience" and "opportunity".

"10% of life is made up of What Happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react."
Stephen Covey

11. DO NOT SEE NO PROBLEM

Use the power of our imagination to find solutions. Do not use to dangle a problem that does not exist.

Hopefully useful.

"Verily with difficulty that there is ease."
(QS.94: 6)

In fact, with a difficulty, there are two (at least) easy. The first ease is when we "face" and not "live". Ease second is when we shift the focus to the Most Compassionate and Merciful.

Do not we have ruled to uphold his weight with the County of two things' that will be a relief that help?

Patience and prayer.

Troubleshooting Living with optimized strength within us

In life, the problem must have always existed. But there's no problem that could not be overcome. And we as humans play a key role in addressing a problem.

As anticipated Mas Alhijr Adwitiya here. Hopefully, this post contains these simple tips can be valuable for our common reflection. For then we ACTION her in daily life kita.Silakan see five tips to overcome problems of life by optimizing the power within us as a source of solutions.

* The Power of destitute. Particularly associated with the work attitude procrastinate, one way to solve this with using the power of the destitute. Tell us when we have time soon. Maybe five minutes or 10 minutes to finish the job we should do. Maybe even with a more extreme statement, saying that this might be the last activity that we can do in this world. I'm sure we'll do it with great seriousness and no more delays. During the short time we will hit the work fast. In our destitute situation can often act extraordinary.
* Love What You Do. Whatever your profession or occupation, and no matter what you do, do it with great affection. When we love what we do, there's no word lazy, no bad words, no word desperate. Do what you love and happiness will follow you. Could be in the form of money or other things far more happy that can not be exchanged only by wealth.
* STOP Negative Thinking. Positive and negative are two things that always will coexist until whenever. But if we are always just stuck in a puddle of negative thoughts will never be a time to see a problem with clarity. Suppose we say "ah it's difficult", "how could I," and all similar statements see only the negative aspects of a case.
Immediately switch your attention on something positive. On a good opportunity and a positive chance of any thing or event that occurred. Able as an opportunity to learn, to become a better human being, to obtain additional income, to build a broader network, to achieve your ideals, or whatever.
If we look at the positive side, and not on the negative side, the fear that had been spread on your self will be reduced. And you will feel a better person, more optimistic, and energetic.
* Make Commitments. Sometimes I hear an example pengkomentar mengetakan'm losing motivation or less eager to live. The key, Commit to be honest with ourselves. Make a commitment to live a better life from seconds to seconds, from minute to minute, from hour to an hour, from day to day, and from one activity to the next.
Then say that commitment to the people around you. Tell developments or activities you have done related to your commitment no matter how small it was in people who have told you earlier.
We must be responsible for the commitments already made. Please do not make ashamed of ourselves. Make the commitment we have said as a guard our spirits.
* Start ACTION only. Yes, just the next ACTION. We started ACTION, then you start moving. No longer in the same place. You've done an upswing. No matter how small it was! Instead of just worrying about things that are not clear or daydream without the base of the tip, began ACTION only. Everything will be easier when you start ACTION.

May be useful for us all. Greet Monday full of energy after tomorrow.