"Love", the buds




Some days I pondered the word "love". Questions like "What is true love?" Or "Is this how it feels to love and be loved?" Also appears in my head lately. So many thoughts arise, the story of the past came and went, giving a reference about the meaning of "love" in my eyes, although everything is subjective. Currently, it seems I'm exposed to "virus" of love. Yes, I feel like it.

Out of curiosity, I finally was searching in google and straight to the halamana bang wikipedia. He has quite a lot of references about the meaning of words that turned out to be the title of this paper. Here are the definitions of love that I found in the cupboard book bang wiki:

Love is a feeling of wanting to share together or a feeling of affection towards someone. Love is a feeling of sympathy that involves deep emotion. Other opinion, love is an action / activity of human activated by another object, such as self-sacrifice, empathy, attention, give love, help, obey the word, follow, obedient, and willing to do whatever the desired object.

There, writing that there are four requirements to achieve love, namely:
1. Introduction
True also, without which there will be an introductory taste of love.
2. Responsibility
I think the feeling of love without responsibility is nonsense.
3. Attention
Ehmm, this is the most interesting part of this love: mutual attention.
4. Mutual respect
This is the hardest part I think. Every person, whether male or female, has the feeling of ego or sense of egoism which is quite high. However, with good communication and smooth, I'm sure everyone can respect each other, both men and women.

He said, as is well known that there are many types of lovers, then there are also many kinds of love. Love is all over all of human culture. It is true, the whole nation and the state of civilization in this world must be taught about love and affection. Because of this cultural difference, definition of love is hard to set. Perhaps the meaning of love in the eyes of the one will be different in the eyes of another person, even may be very different.

The word bang wikipedia again, an expression of love can be included in love with 'soul' or mind, love of law and organizations, love loss, love nature, love food, love money, love learning, love of power, love keterkenalan, etc.. Love is more directed to an abstract concept, easier experienced than explained. This is all possible because it was hard to define the meaning of love itself. Love that is already there needs to be always maintained in order to maintain its beauty. Do not even damaged or desecrated sanctity.

Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. Some elements are often present in interpersonal love, which is also cited but not all of them are as follows:
1. Affection: appreciation of others
2. Altruism: a non-selfish concern for others (which of course is very seldom we encounter today)
3. Reciprocation: the love of mutual benefit (not exploit each other)
4. Commitment: a desire to perpetuate the love, determination, strong in a relationship
5. Emotional intimacy: sharing emotions and sense of
6. Kinship: family bonds
7. Passion: Desire and / or which tend to be a raging sexual appetite
8. Physical intimacy: sharing of life close to each other physically, including sexual hubungn
9. Self-interest: the love that expect personal benefits, tend to be selfish and have a desire to take advantage of partner
10. Service: desire to help and serve

There again, turned out sexual energy can become the most important element in determining the form of relationships. But sexual attraction often creates a new bond, because sexual desire is considered bad or inappropriate in some bond of love. There are countless ways to express affection without sex. Exchange of sms, email, chat and even via the telephone communication can be a means to channel this passion of love. Affection, emotional intimacy, the sense of mutual need, the same hobbies, or even really explain the feelings that are very common in friends and relatives in all human beings in this world, something that is universal.

This paper is purely bang retell from wikipedia, I'm just taking the good opinion, and hopefully it's good for you. Let us continue to share her love and affection. Anything. Nuwun.

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